I need help with something a2. How do I gain confidence to do something that will actively make my life worse and better.

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Working really hard at something I enjoy and take pride in always leaves me feeling confident afterwards.

Also pick up meditation. Focus on the habit, not the results at first. Meditate twice a day for 3 months, and protect your habit with a lot of vigilance. If you form a consistent practice of meditation, you will find you will be able to summon confidence and address anxiety in a way more measured and mature way.

Also pick up meditation. Focus on the habit, not the results at first. Meditate twice a day for 3 months, and protect your habit with a lot of vigilance. If you form a consistent practice of meditation, you will find you will be able to summon confidence and address anxiety in a way more measured and mature way.

Stare at the wall and yell at yourself until you feel like you're on vyvanse

or just take vyvanse

Depends on what you want to do but mostly I'll say get ready and jump into it with the right preparation

Get really good at the whip and nae nae

Nervousness is not the absence of other feelings too. Focus on those other feelings. I think you'll find you can't not be yourself. This is not something you have to TRY to do

Ur style is fucking sick

Thx dude I love the gutter punk aesthetic and make clothes like this for fun.

Dive hard into diet and exercise, and commit to it for at least 10 weeks. It sucks, it is really truly awful and will make your life both better and worse.

I’m fit and all just have no confidence in myself to be myself

Okay, I used to be that way, hella. Here's the thing: most everyone else is in their own head too, too wrapped up in "am I OK??" to think you're higher or lower than the average person, so you stack right up with whatever benchmark they have for people already. Being fit, you could have an ugly face and still be above average. So just be whatever and similar people will fall into your orbit. And then if they later fall out, I guarantee you'll discover they never belonged around you anyway. As long as you're mixing with people, you don't even have to say much to eventually be a familiar face. People LOVE a familiar face most of all. So go mix with people and whatever happens, call it a success. I guess one more little tip: right after you mix with people, take notes just so you remember the details. What were you wearing? What were these relationships about? Get the names right. What details should you ask about next time (like you know, is the dog in their story okay?)... don't write a novel, just little notes.

Alright I’ll give it a shot thanks man :)

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